Belief: Breakups occur in December

Why is it that so many relationships break up in December?  Is it because of the cost of gifts?  Is it because of the pressure that all of the jewelers place on purchasing ‘things’ in December?  Or is it something else all together?

These were the thoughts going through my head after a session with an amazing lady who was certain her long-term boy friend was going to break up with her before Christmas.  She was certain of it.  When I asked ‘Why?” she told me that if a relationship is going to fail it will do so in December.  And she was absolutely convinced of it.

And that is how beliefs work,  They convince us despite all of the evidence around us that tells us something different; despite all of our own personal experience that indicate there may be another possibility. And that is how beliefs work. 

What are your unfounded beliefs about the holidays? 

One of the most effective methods to discover unfounded beliefs is to make a statement about your beliefs to your friends and see what their response is.  If they disagree, you just might want to look again at your belief and take inventory of your experience that supports or denies your belief. 

How would you like to consider shifting some of your long-held  beliefs? 

Shift Your Perspective – Shift Your Belief – Shift Your Life Experience

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