Posts Tagged ‘Worthiness’

Self-Love in Relationships

September 17, 2010

And society tells you that you are being selfish when you place love of self before love of relationships.  And We, the Angelic Realm, tell you that unless you place love of self before relationships your relationships do not have a chance of blossoming and growing. For, if you give up yourself or even put yourself into second place in a relationship, the relationship become unbalanced.

As we say this, be aware that we are not speaking of inconsiderate, self-centered love.  We are speaking of true self-love. The love that keeps you aware of your wholeness, your worthiness, your beauty as the being you are.  We are speaking of the love of self that allows you to shine and to grow.  We are speaking of the soul level love. (more…)


Shifting Beliefs – The Belief in Your Own Self Worth

February 15, 2010

Barbara Joye - The Shift Guru
Barbara Joye – The Shift Guru

And if I am to take seriously the recommendation to live as an Arch Angel, it occurred to me that I had to believe in my self worth – my own worthiness.  And once again, this is not something that I as a child (or as an adult) have had a great deal of education and training and practice. 

What does it really mean to believe in our own self worth?  And does that look self focused?  Does that cause someone to appear to be self-absorbed and without thought or concern for others?  Or, is it just the opposite, as some of my friends think?  Does it mean that I would end up giving all to everyone else due to the fact that I fully understand my own worth, my own worthiness? 

Ponder, for a moment, what elements of yourself you do not find worthy or trust in the worthiness of.  Think for a moment about the skills and aptitudes and talents you have that you have not fully developed because…. (and there are a myriad of stories and approaches to not developing our talents and aptitudes).  And then consider if perhaps, just perhaps, the lack of development is due, in part, to a lack of self-worth or sense of worth as it relates to that skill, talent, aptitude.  

Or perhaps, as I identified for me, you have not developed that talent or skill or aptitude because it might lead you down some very interesting and less than normal paths in life.  And isn’t being outside of the norm one of our the greatest fears for the vast majority of us? 

Take just a moment and consider how much you truly believe in your own self worth.  And then reflect upon how awesome life will be when you do truly believe in your own self worth. 

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